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đ§ âUncle Energy & Real Talk with Forrest Givensâ
đŹÂ Meet Uncle Forrest â The Creative With a Heart for Our Sugars Hey sugars! đ Yâall know I love when we bring a fresh face  to the purple table â and this week, Auntie M sat down with Uncle Forrest Givens , a true DMV creative. Heâs a photographer, videographer, designer, and  middle school teacher (yes, he really does it all đđž). From growing up in every corner of D.C. to teaching the next generation of storytellers, Forrest is proof that you can turn childhood imaginati
Nov 14, 20253 min read
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đ âBrains, Beauty & Barbizon: Meet Auntea Morganâ
Auntea: Morgan Renee Sills â Topic:  Confidence, balance, and redefining beauty đ Sugar Q: âAuntea, can I really do both  â be smart and stylish?â Morgan laughed. âYes, baby â and donât let anyone tell you different!â Sheâs living proof. đđžÂ A Howard Law graduate  and model , Auntea Morganâs journey flows between fashion and activism  â and sheâs rocking both lanes like a pro. She started modeling at 13 (shoutout to Barbizon  girls đ
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Jun 10, 20253 min read
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⨠âProtect Your Light, Sugarâ
Auntea: Buffy Sheard â Topic:  Faith, Friendship, and Protecting Your Energy đ Sugar Q: âWhich voice should I listen to?â Hey Sugar đ, Auntea Buffy says the world is loud â but Godâs voice is love, not noise. âThe loudest voice isnât always the right one. Godâs voice might come quiet, but itâs always real â itâs always love.â She shared a story about hearing God tug at her heart when she was younger â and being scared at first. But over time, she realized that voice wasnâ
Apr 20, 20253 min read
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đ âUnapologetically Youâ
Auntea:  Angela Rani Terrell â Topic:  Faith, purpose, healing, and walking boldly in who you are đ  Meet Auntie Angela Sugars, todayâs tea is extra special . Weâre talking to Auntie Angela Rani Terrell â filmmaker, mama bear, prayer warrior, and yes, big sister to Auntie M herself! Sheâs a true D.C. girl who grew up in Southeast and is now living that Maryland life. But more than anything, Auntie Angela is proof that your faith can fuel your purpose â no matter where lif
Apr 8, 20253 min read
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đď¸ âFaith, Family, and Finding Your Peaceâ
Uncle: Rev. Dr. James E. Terrell Topic:  Faith, forgiveness, and learning to listen for Godâs voice â Meet Great Uncle James Yes, sugars â this episodeâs tea comes from a real  OG: Rev. Dr. James Terrell , educator, minister, and father of our very own Auntie M (Marisa Terrell)! đ Heâs proof that wisdom never goes out of style. From growing up in a big family in Akron, Ohio, to becoming a Rhodes Scholarâlevel thinker, Uncle James has seen  things and lived to tell the sto
Mar 30, 20253 min read
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đ¸ Uncle X on Money, Manhood & Making Smart Moves
Guest: Uncle Xavier Epps đ Topic:  Money, mindset, and making choices that set you up for success đŹ Meet Uncle X Hey Sugars đ â you already know Ask Your Auntea isnât just for the aunties. This week, weâre flipping the script and letting an uncle  drop some serious gems. Meet Uncle Xavier Epps  â financial advisor, author, DC native, and proud dad of three girls (and three nieces!). Heâs here to spill the tea on money, choices, and what it really means to grow up wise.
Mar 30, 20254 min read
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đ âThe Power of Being Authentically Youâ
Auntea: Chelly Jones â Topic:  Confidence, College Dreams & Standing Strong đ Sugar Q: âWhy wonât my mom help me with my college applications?â Hey Sugar đ, Auntea Chelly gets this one â because she lived it. âI was the oldest and first in my family to go to college. My parents didnât know how to help â they just knew I was going .â Sometimes, your mom isnât holding back on purpose. She might not know what steps to take. But that doesnât mean she doesnât care. đĄÂ The Tea:
Mar 26, 20253 min read
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đ¤ âYou Canât Be Famous Without Focusâ
Auntea: Ashleigh Demi â Topic:  Reality TV Dreams, Self-Worth, and Choosing Wisely đ Sugar Q: âDo I need college to be a reality star?â Hey Sugar đ, Auntea Ashleighâs answer? âCollege isnât requiredâbut education is essential.â Sheâs seen both sides of fame, from TV One  to The Real Housewives of Potomac , and she wants you to know the truth: âYou can make it without college, but youâll struggle without education.â Why? Because when those big contracts land in your inbox,
Mar 25, 20252 min read
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đśď¸ âWearing Tomorrow, Todayâ
Auntea (well, Unc!): Melvin "Uncle Mel" Witten â Topic:  Choices, discipline, and bouncing back from setbacks đŹÂ Meet Uncle Mel Uncle Mel grew up right here in Southeast DC and went from HD Woodson High  to Hampton University , then Howard Law  â but the road wasnât straight. He got kicked out his first year of college, worked full-time, and went to UDC at night  to finish strong. đđž Now? Heâs done work with Motown Records , BET , and the DC Commission on the Arts & Huma
Feb 5, 20253 min read
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đ âFinding Peace Beyond the Statesâ
Auntea: Tammi Nicole Carrington â Topic:  Discernment, self-love, and choosing peace wherever you are âď¸Â Auntie Tammiâs Passport to Peace Hey sugars đ â meet Auntie Tammi Carrington , a DMV native whoâs turned her curiosity into a global lifestyle. From Panama to Puerto Rico to maybe even Nigeria, Auntie Tammiâs not just traveling  â sheâs transforming. âI find peace outside of the States now.â Sheâs part of a growing number of Black women exploring life abroad, building
Oct 15, 20243 min read
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đ âHigh School Is Your Dress Rehearsal for Lifeâ
Auntea: Kizzy Dogan â Topic:  Staying grounded, embracing growth, and slowing down when life moves too fast đ Sugar Q: âWhatâs so great about high school, anyway?â Auntea Kizzy didnât even blink. âHigh school is a period that lets you discover who you are, what you like, and who you want to become. Itâs a dress rehearsal  for life â because after graduation, itâs showtime!â She reminded us that high school is your safe zone . You can make mistakes, learn from them, and sti
Oct 1, 20243 min read
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đ âLeading with Love from Southeast DCâ
Auntea: Natasha Dupee â Topic:  Faith, Confidence, and Finding Community đ Sugar Q: âAuntea, should I take the AP class even if my best friend didnât get in?â âAbsolutely, sugar â go for it!â Natasha smiled. âYour path might look different, but that doesnât mean youâre leaving your people behind.â She remembers her own crew from high school â four best friends, all headed in different directions. âWe didnât go to the same schools, but we shared everything â our wins, our
Sep 24, 20243 min read
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đ âBuy the Building, Keep the Kids Safeâ
Auntea: Ramona Greene â Topic:  Community, faith, hard love â and protecting the girls in our neighborhoods đ Sugar Q: âShould I take AP even if my best friend didnât get in?â âAbsolutely, sugar â go for it!â  Ramona smiles. Your path may look different, but that doesnât mean you left your people behind. She remembers her crew from high school â friends who went different ways but still shared their wins and their lessons. đĄÂ The Tea:  Donât dim your light for someone el
Sep 10, 20243 min read
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đ âHealing Is Still Beautifulâ
Auntea: Tiffany Browne â Topic:  Healing, self-worth, and redefining beauty from the inside out đ From the Bronx to the DMV When Auntie Tiffany walks in a room, her energy says it all â calm, confident, and radiant. â¨Â But that glow? It wasnât always there. She grew up in the Bronx , the oldest of three, in a home that had love but also challenges. âI was a good student, but I was also a fixer. I wanted everyone around me to be okay,â she says. Now, sheâs a licensed therap
Jul 16, 20243 min read
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đ âDonât Let the World Tell You Youâre Too Muchâ
Auntea: Tia Styles â Topic:  Discernment, self-love, and choosing peace wherever you are đ From Ridge Road to Runway Ready When Auntie Tia talks beauty, she means more than makeup â sheâs talking about confidence . Growing up in Southeast DC , her mom ran a hair salon, so Tiaâs first âjobâ was folding towels for $50 a week. âI was so hype about that 50 bucks,â she laughs. âIâd go buy sneakers right after.â đ By 12, she was shampooing hair. By 20, sheâd found her passion
Jul 9, 20243 min read
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đ âBe Your Authentic Self â Alwaysâ
Auntea: Adia Coleman â Topic:  Confidence, Relationships, and Red Flags đ Sugar Q: âMy boyfriend is 4 years older and doesnât like me hanging out with other people. Is he too controlling?â Hey Sugar đ, Short answer? Yes.  Long answer? Letâs talk about how you even got there in the first place. Auntea Adia kept it real: âI met my boyfriend when I was a freshman at Morgan State â he was older, had a car, and seemed so mature. But I found myself saying yes to everything he
Jun 18, 20243 min read
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𩺠âProtect Your Body, Protect Your Futureâ
Auntea: Dr. Caryl Mussenden â Topic:  Sex, Health & Loving Yourself Enough to Wait đ Sugar Q: âMy boyfriend told me he has an STD. Should I still date him?â Dr. Caryl didnât hesitate: âYou shouldnât be intimate until you know what it is. Most STDs are contagious, and a lot of people donât even show symptoms.â And if heâs already been with you? Youâve got to get checked too. đĄÂ The Tea: Protect yourself first. Love isnât proof youâre healthy â honesty is. â¨Â Sugar Q: âIâm t
Jun 11, 20242 min read
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đ âStart Where You Are & Shine Anywayâ
Auntea: Lanaysha âElleâ Jackson â Topic:  Confidence, calling out bullies, and finding joy in your own name đ Sugar Q: âIf I ignore a bully, will she disappear?â âBullies are very fragile. Their power is fragile. And they donât do well with change.â Auntea Elle learned that lesson back when she was 14. Standing tall at 5'8", she dealt with bullies who tried to shake her confidence. But hereâs the thing â most bullies are battling their own insecurities. Elle found out her
May 6, 20242 min read
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đ âStay Busy, Stay Freeâ
Auntea: Denee âNaeNaeâ Davis â Topic:  DC Roots, Real Talk, and Staying Out of Trouble đ Sugar Q: âDC is crazy. My friend got shot. How do I stay out of trouble?â Whew, Sugar â thatâs real. âYou canât hang with everybody, baby,â Denee said. âIf you know somebody doing wrong, and you stay around âem, youâre gonna get caught up in the mess.â She remembers growing up around the same streets â the fights, the peer pressure, the chaos. âThatâs why I stayed busy. I joined the da
Mar 4, 20242 min read
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đź From the Courtroom to the Classroom: Auntie Patriciaâs Story
Guest: Patricia Elam Walker, Ph.D. đ§ ⨠Topic:  The power of pivoting, self-belief, and staying true to your voice đ¸Â Who Is Auntie Patricia? Hey Sugars đ â today weâre sipping tea with Dr. Patricia Elam Walker , a woman whoâs lived many lives in one. Sheâs been a lawyer , a journalist , a college professor , and now a childrenâs book author  â but through it all, sheâs stayed true to one thing: her voice. âEvery job Iâve had has been about storytelling,â she said. âI just
Feb 12, 20242 min read
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