✨ “Protect Your Light, Sugar”
- Developer tester
- Nov 13
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 18
Auntea: Buffy Sheard ☕
Topic: Faith, Friendship, and Protecting Your Energy
💌 Sugar Q: “Which voice should I listen to?”
Hey Sugar 💕,
Auntea Buffy says the world is loud — but God’s voice is love, not noise.
“The loudest voice isn’t always the right one. God’s voice might come quiet, but it’s always real — it’s always love.”
She shared a story about hearing God tug at her heart when she was younger — and being scared at first. But over time, she realized that voice wasn’t meant to frighten her. It was meant to guide her.
So if you ever feel that inner nudge — the one that tells you to do what’s right — lean in. Don’t ignore it.
💡 The Tea:
When something feels peaceful, it’s usually God. When it feels chaotic, it’s not.
Silence the noise so you can hear what’s real. 🙏🏽
🧛🏾♀️ Sugar Q: “Can I give too much?”
Yes, baby. You can.
“Vampires are real. They see your light and want to drain it — but they can’t refill it.”
Auntea Buffy kept it 💯 — not everyone deserves your energy. Some people show up just to feed off your vibe, your confidence, and your joy.
When that happens, you start losing sight of you. You skip practice. You fall behind. You forget your goals — all to keep someone else happy.
💡 The Tea:
Protect your light. You can love people without losing yourself. ✨
If it drains you, it doesn’t deserve you.
💬 Sugar Q: “Should I tell or mind my business?”
There’s a difference between being messy and being mature.
“If telling comes from love — do it.”
Auntea Buffy shared a story about her daughter who told her when a friend was posting risky pictures online. That decision saved her friend from real harm.
💡 The Tea:
Snitching out of love isn’t messy — it’s wise. 🩷
If someone’s safety or future is at risk, say something. Tell a trusted adult. Tell your Auntea.
💻 Sugar Q: “Can I trust online dating advice?”
“Everybody’s got a microphone — but not everybody should.” 🎤
Buffy reminded us that not everyone giving relationship advice is healthy themselves.You don’t know their values, how they were raised, or what they’ve been through.
💡 The Tea:
Don’t take advice from broken people about how to love.
Build your own standards — rooted in truth, peace, and self-respect. 💅🏽
💔 Sugar Q: “My friend has it all. Why don’t I?”
Comparison is the thief of peace, Sugar.
“You don’t know how they got it — or what it cost them.”
Auntea Buffy kept it transparent — she used to struggle with body image, comparing herself to her smaller friends. But with time, she learned her worth wasn’t tied to her waist size or what others had.
💡 The Tea:
What’s for you will never miss you.
Stay focused, stay patient, and trust God’s timing. 🌸
💋 Simi’s Sip
Protect your peace, Sugar.
Block out the noise, stay close to God, and never let anyone dim your shine. You don’t owe your light to people who can’t handle it.
Not a lecture, just a sip of tea. ☕💖
💁🏽♀️ Meet the Auntea: Buffy Sheard
Auntea Buffy Sheard is a powerhouse leader, mom, and mentor who blends faith, humor, and honesty to help young women stay grounded. A North Carolina native now repping the DMV, she teaches girls that protecting your peace starts with knowing your worth and listening to God’s whisper.
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