đ âLeading with Love from Southeast DCâ
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- Sep 24, 2024
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Auntea: Natasha Dupeeâ
Topic:Â Faith, Confidence, and Finding Community

đ Sugar Q: âAuntea, should I take the AP class even if my best friend didnât get in?â
âAbsolutely, sugar â go for it!â Natasha smiled. âYour path might look different, but that doesnât mean youâre leaving your people behind.â
She remembers her own crew from high school â four best friends, all headed in different directions. âWe didnât go to the same schools, but we shared everything â our wins, our lessons, even what we were reading. Thatâs what real friendship looks like.â
đĄÂ The Tea:
Donât dim your light to stay in someone elseâs shadow. When you grow, you make space for others to grow too. đą
đŤÂ Sugar Q: âWhat was it like growing up in Southeast DC?â
âIâm a proud Southeast girl â Fairlawn, right off Pennsylvania and Minnesota Ave,â Natasha said. âWe had big yards, pear trees, music on the corners, and people who knew your family by name.â
She remembers taking the 30 bus to School Without Walls and running to catch it some mornings. âWe dressed for success because you never knew â one day weâd be at the State Department, the next day the Library of Congress.â
đĄÂ The Tea:
Your zip code doesnât define you â it prepares you. Every street corner, every bus ride is part of your story. â¨
đ Sugar Q: âWhy do I have to take a foreign language? We all speak English!â
âListen, sugar,â Natasha said, laughing. âIâve learned French, Spanish, even a little ASLÂ â and each one opened doors.â
She told the story of getting her hair braided at an African salon and realizing she could understand the conversation happening around her. âLanguage lets you connect â not just with people, but with culture. Itâs about respect.â
đĄÂ The Tea:
Speaking more than one language doesnât just make you smart â it makes you global. đ
đ Sugar Q: âMy family never comes to my basketball games. Why donât they want me to be great?â
Natasha took a breath. âWhew, I feel that one. But sugar, sometimes love looks different.â
She explained that parents might be working, helping other family members, or carrying responsibilities you donât always see. âJust because theyâre not in the stands doesnât mean they donât care. Look around â your coach, your teammates, even your teachers. They might be your found family.â
đĄÂ The Tea:Â
Family isnât just who raised you â itâs who shows up. Accept love wherever it finds you. đ
đđžÂ Sugar Q: âIs God real? How do you know?â
Natasha smiled softly. âFaith is the evidence of things we canât see. Just like you canât see the wind or the water under the ground â you know itâs there.â
For her, faith shows up in songs, gratitude, and the push to get up every morning. âThat connection to God â or source, or spirit â itâs what keeps me steady. Itâs real.â
đĄÂ The Tea:Â
You donât have to have all the answers to believe. Faith grows every time you keep going. đ¤ď¸
đ Sugar Q: âWhatâs your morning routine?â
âAlexa, play John P. Kee!â Natasha laughed. âEvery morning starts with music and gratitude.â
Her routine is a mix of devotion, breakfast, and slow coffee. âMy dad says thereâs no mission without nutrition. My mom always said spend five minutes on yourself â look in the mirror, fix your edges, and remind yourself youâve got this.â
đĄÂ The Tea:Â
Gratitude hits different when itâs the first thing you choose. Start your day with thanks â and your shine will follow. âď¸
đđžÂ Sugar Q: âWhat do you do to cheer yourself up?â
âI dance, sugar!â Natasha said with a grin. âIf I canât make it to the gym or the pool, I turn on some music and dance in the living room.â
When life gets heavy, she reconnects to what keeps her grounded â community, nature, movement, and music. âEven a quick two-step reminds me who I am.â
đĄÂ The Tea:Â
Joy is a choice â and sometimes it starts with a dance break. đś
đ Simiâs Sip
You donât need to have it all figured out, sugar. Keep showing up, keep learning, and let your faith and fire guide you.
Your community, your joy, and your purpose? Theyâre already in you.
Not a lecture, just a sip of tea. âđ
đđ˝ââď¸ Meet the Aunteaâ Natasha Dupee
Natasha Dupee is the Executive Director of the Mayorâs Office on Womenâs Policy and Initiatives (MOWPI). A proud Southeast native and fifth-generation Washingtonian, sheâs passionate about helping young women find confidence, community, and purpose â right where they are.
â¨Â Follow: @natasha_dupee





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