✨ “They’ll Regret Sleeping on You”

Auntea: Kristi Love☕

Topic: Breakups, Self-Worth & Protecting Your Energy

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💌 Sugar Q: “I just broke up with my boyfriend. How do I get over it?”

Hey Sugar 💕,

Whew — breakups sting. Whether it’s your first he played in my face moment or your “we were supposed to be forever” heartbreak, the pain is real. But Auntie Kristi Love? She’s been there — and she came through with some healing tea.

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💔 When He Chose Someone Else (in your sweater!)

Auntie Kristi told us about her middle school boo who left her for another girl — wearing Kristi’s sweater.

“She went after my boyfriend in my sweater that I loaned her. And he chose her!”

Instead of shrinking, Kristi glowed up.

“I told him, you’re going to regret this. Wait till we get to high school — I’m going to show you something.”

And she did. Field hockey star 🏑. Class president. PTA liaison. Total standout.All he could do was wave from a distance.

💡 The Tea:

When someone doesn’t recognize your worth, you don’t chase them — you elevate.

Your success is the sweetest revenge.

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⚡ Sugar Q: “Why am I so aggressive? Why can’t I just let things go?”

We’ve all been there — ready to clap back or hit “send” before thinking. But Auntie Kristi says:

“Your energy is your magic. Don’t waste it.”

Not everyone deserves access to your power. Protect your vibe like your peace and your edges. ✨

💡 The Tea:

Don’t let petty people shift your focus. The real flex is staying calm, classy, and in control.

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💕 Sugar Q: “How can I open myself up to love myself more?”

Confidence isn’t a trend. It’s an inside job.

“My mother was constantly reaffirming how special, how beautiful, how smart I was… But at a certain point, you have to do that for yourself.”

So start small:

💭 Write affirmations on your mirror.

🎶 Make a playlist that hypes you up.

📚 Spend time doing what makes you feel alive — reading, fashion, creating, dancing, dreaming.

💡 The Tea:

Every kind word you speak to yourself is a seed. Keep watering your confidence until it grows wild. 🌸

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💋 Simi’s Sip

Life’s gonna test you, Sugar — but every setback is just a setup for your next shine.Keep your head high, your playlist fire, and your focus fierce.

You already have the magic inside you. ✨

Not a lecture, just a sip of tea. ☕💖

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💁🏽‍♀️ Meet the Auntea— Kristi Love

Auntie Kristi Love is a multidisciplinary designer, creative director, and the founder of Kristi Love Creative, LLC — where she transforms spaces, fashion, and events with fearless imagination.

She’s also The Cool Aunt on Instagram — dropping daily affirmations, style inspo, and wisdom for young women finding their voice.

Follow her at @the.cool.aunt for your daily dose of ✨creative energy + confidence ✨